This episode explores James 4 to show that the only way to protect the church—and every relationship—from destructive quarrels is to humble ourselves before God. It emphasizes that fights begin when untamed passions rule our hearts, so we must turn those desires God-ward and ask instead of grabbing. Drawing from James 1 and the Gethsemane prayer of Jesus, it highlights how true humility makes room for God’s grace, trusts His timing, and surrenders personal agendas with the phrase “if the Lord wills.” The message ends with a challenge: let Scripture become the daily covering that shapes every decision, tames every impulse, and keeps the community at peace.